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I'm facing a recurring problem on Stack Overflow that goes like this: Someone asks a question. I answer, and we chat until their problem is solved. Then they leave the site, forgetting to upvote my answer or mark it accepted. This sort of thing discourages answering; is there any way we can tackle this problem? Should I just ignore questions from new users, since I'm not sure they'll accept my answer?

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i spend my 1 hour to give the answer and after that if someone behave in this way then what to do with him? – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:15
Why downvote?can you consider a comment please? – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:16
@brucelee: its harmful to community if someone work is not appreciated. – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:18
@TofeeqAhmad Downvotes on meta mean that people disagree. In this case, downvotes probably mean disagreement with your assertion that there's a problem. – Adam Lear Jan 16 '12 at 7:18
@AnnaLear:disagree? so they do not need comment and indicating me what is wrong with it/ – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:19
@TofeeqAhmad No, they don't. This is another example of something that's entirely optional. – Adam Lear Jan 16 '12 at 7:20
Your motivation for answering questions should be to help the community first, and the individual who asked the question later (personally I don't care at all for that). Anna's answer pretty much covers me, I've given a similar answer on Programmers meta (if you have any interest on reading more of what I think). Please don't ignore questions you can answer, for any reason. – Yannis Jan 16 '12 at 7:23
@AnnaLear: i am surprised that nobody is agree to give appreciation for some one work.But Ms Anna thanks for your kind guidance. – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:23
@TofeeqAhmad Yeap, it's logical to ignore that person, in your position I'd probably do the same. But that's a very specific scenario, that fortunately doesn't happen very often. You could try leaving a polite message saying something like "hey, what's up with your very low accept rate? Accepting answers is a nice way to motivate people providing useful answers". Don't make it about your answer specifically, of course... – Yannis Jan 16 '12 at 7:34
But never again leave comments like the ones @brucelee linked to. That's borderline harassment. – Yannis Jan 16 '12 at 7:39
No you shouldn't delete it. As everyone else said, voting on Meta is different. Posts that people disagree with are as useful as the ones people agree with. If anything you given us a question to refer to when someone makes a similar enquiry, and that's as useful as any other positively voted contribution. Stop caring about votes all together, even on the main site they don't actually mean anything. – Yannis Jan 16 '12 at 7:46
@ZaphodBeeblebrox: thank you ..i love the way you guide me.But already my reputation very low. – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:48
@TofeeqAhmad It only takes a great answer to change that :) Seriously, keep on answering questions, reputation will come naturally. Don't worry about it. – Yannis Jan 16 '12 at 7:51
I disagree with the idea of forcing users to accept answers and the "Should I just ignore questions from new users" especially.. Anna Lear said it in awesome way in her answer other than that I can say that I sometimes leave "If this answer solved your problem please mark it as accepted" for new users but I never repeat it more than once and it never discourage me from answering other questions, even of the same person. Reputation is nice and shiny, but it shouldn't be the main reason to be here. – Shadow Wizard Jan 16 '12 at 8:43
up vote 21 down vote accepted

Accepting an answer is purely voluntary and there's no obligation to do so.

A lot of us participate here because we want to be helpful. If you're after reputation and green checkmarks, you might find it difficult to deal with the fact that there's nothing we can or should do to force people to vote or accept answers.

We already encourage voting and accepting answers via pop-ups, showing the accept rate on user cards, etc. Beyond that... it's all .

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By your definition it's just an optional thank you button. If that is the design, then we can just as well remove it. IMO, the point of accepting an answer is to show that a question has been solved and that a particular answer was most helpful in solving the problem. It's not so much about the additional reputation than it is a status indicator. Not accepting answers indicates: this question has not been solved yet. This is reflected by being able to search for unaccepted answers. – Gordon Jan 16 '12 at 8:53
@Gordon: i agree 100%.And that was my one point but i did not get judge rightly by community – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 8:58
I agree with @TofeeqAhmad his question is a good one and didn't deserve the negative feedback. With such a low rep now he has no ability to effectively participate. So you got an up vote for me cause I agree with your question. – JPM Jan 24 '12 at 5:36
I agree that the accept rate helps us remember to mark questions as answered or to answer our own questions when we get the solution. I personally answer when I think I can contribute. But when the answer requires time and the accept rate of the user is too sketchy then I put that to the back of my todo queue. – Coyote Jan 3 '13 at 22:51

If one sees an answer and upvotes, one is showing appreciation of that answer.

As the FAQ states

Reputation is a rough measurement of how much the community trusts you; it is earned by convincing your peers that you know what you’re talking about.

Don't go around bothering people to accept answers, let the votes from users of the community work. If your answer is good, the community will show their appreciation in time.

Patience and humility.

It aint no race.

Also: Help vampires exist. Deal with it.

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how can i show that i am disagree with you? – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:33
@TofeeqAhmad I think you just did. :) Other than that, downvotes are still the way to go. Meta works like other sites - you need 125 reputation to be able to downvote other posts. – Adam Lear Jan 16 '12 at 7:40
@brucelee: sorry for comment.That was really bad.Thank you for your answer. +1 – TofeeqAhmad Jan 16 '12 at 7:42
Apparently this site is brutal for reputation, less forgiving... – JPM Jan 24 '12 at 2:42
@JPM huh? Not sure what you mean. – phwd Jan 24 '12 at 2:54
Your link about not bothering people links to an accepted answer with zero upvotes. As most of my encryption answers get few to none upvotes, and since not accepting the answer leaves the question open and fck up to the *answered questions statistics, I cannot agree with this. – Maarten Bodewes Apr 17 '14 at 15:13

I'm quite a new user on Stack Overflow but I already know what you mean. It can get really frustrating, especially when you donate 2h of your time and somebody doesn't show the smallest form of appreciation.

Today, when thinking about this I came up with an idea. What if every user could have a blacklist to which he/she could add the users who behave this way, and next to the reputation and badges there would be an extra thing with the number of users who put the person on their blacklists?

The way I see it, seeing a question asked by a person with a high blacklist number, the community would be more aware of who's asking the question. On the other hand there could be alerts like "careful, over 5 people have added you to their blacklists - you should consider accepting the relevant answers to your questions". At the same time, after the user accepts them, the ones who put the person on their blacklists would get an alert like "User X is getting to know how things go and has accepted 5 answers today", which would be a signal to take the person off their list.

I think the system would give the asking people the opportunity to learn how things go and prevent the users on the forum to engage in an activity that doesn't bring them any good.

And yes, I'm aware of the fact that ideally, users should just contribute because of being good :) and that the general idea of answering is not the prize, but the contribution. On the other hand, things in general are far from ideal in this world and this behavior discourages many people from contributing and maybe having such a system could somehow fix the issue.

What do you think about the idea?

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Sorry to disturb you, but do you really feel there is a reason to bump this old discussion by a new post which does not add anything, especially not to the OP, since he's asked this more than 2 years ago? – yo' Jun 4 '14 at 19:22
I googled this thread and it was the first that showed up, so I figured that even if people don't post here anymore, they sure look for answers. In my opinion the post suggests a solution that hasn't been suggested yet in this thread so it does add something new, correct me if I'm wrong. – oneday Jun 4 '14 at 19:58
answer the question, not the user. So what this question is from someone who won't accept? Others may upvote if your answer is good. See – Kate Gregory Jun 4 '14 at 20:06
Iagree with the fact that others might upvote. If it comes to answering the question, not the user, this is how I see it. Some people arehere just to contribute and ask questions, others to contribute and gain reputation while surely there are some for whom the reputation is THE motivation. I've heard of cases when Stack Overflow reputation was a + point during interviews, so as long as the answers are correct and the person contributes, the motives shouldn't matter, right? Pragmatic, that's how I see it. While people don't accept answers, the repu-motive ones are discouraged = less answers. – oneday Jun 4 '14 at 20:18
So, I'm in the middle group - contribution and reputation.Yes,the reputation is pretty important to me,not just as a number but as sign that my skills are enough to do some good. Self-worth kind of stuff,people love numbers :) What I've realized is that very often you get the feedback=accepted answer from users who ask very general, downvoted answers that show little or no research. I guess this has something to do with the "saviour" feeling coming from them towards the one actually answering.Iguess I'm not so unique and there are others like me, so in the end we answer not worthy questions. – oneday Jun 4 '14 at 20:31
What you suggest here is a new feature request, it does not fit as answer but rather as a new question tagged feature-request. It's a legit request, though I fear you're going to get downvotes due to many users disagreeing with the suggestion. Whether to post it or not, it's your call. – Shadow Wizard Jun 5 '14 at 9:22

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