Shouldn't a question not show up in the review queue to the one who edited it? This could be gamed - just edit a random closed question, review it as "leave closed" in the reopen queue, and get a free "reopen queue" review point (counting towards the Steward badge).
Is there any particular reason why it shouldn't? Think of it as a reminder.
Voting to reopen a question after editing it is a completely normal behavior. In fact, the Reopen Votes queue even has an Edit & Reopen button for each item. So I don't see why it shouldn't show you a question just because you've edited it.
Your options are:
Per my comments in parentheses, all of these are possible and make sense in this context.