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I believe a site is only shown when you have >=200 reputation on it. So I'm guessing your cooking rep is greater than (or equal to) 200, but your webapps rep is not, and that's why webapps doesn't show up on Area 51.
These sites aren't formally members of the network until they survive public beta -- that takes 60 to 90 days.