This is a very minor annoyance, but the fix should be relatively minor also; once a member's flair has been downloaded, stop asking em if ey've "got flair?" Since there's obviously some type of server-side wizardry already going on, unless
.png files have grown the intelligence to parse query strings (e.g. "?style=dark"), this shouldn't be too hard to implement.
The "flair" settings can be put under the profile editor.
PS those aren't typos, they're gender neutral pronouns