I am looking to integrate a Q&A script into a large website I am working on and StackExchange would be a great fit for us.
The only issue we have is the level of control we would like to have on the Q&A application itself. We would most likely want to place adverts on pages or custom HTML for forms in the sidebar, and we would definitely want it "located" on our website (i.e. http://www.ourwebsite.org/ask/). We run our site on ASP.NET and sadly a lot of the open source alternatives are written in PHP with MySQL in mind.
I apologise if this is the wrong place to ask this, but what level of control would StackExchange offer us? Can I redirect a SE page to our own domain and how much control will I get over additional HTML for adverts or forms within the page.