I strongly dislike having so much verbiage being attributed to me.
It's not only about how much is said, it's also about what is said.
When casting a close vote, I am neither surmising that the questions may be similar nor expecting the OP to edit anything. What I am saying by casting a close vote is that, as someone who has sufficient experience in the matter, I have reviewed both questions and can affirm that they have the same underlying issue that has the same solution that is presented in the duplicate I am referring to. I'm not asking the OP's opinion. I'm telling them that this is how it is.
I would have left a non-voting comment with the link to the other question if this was not the case.
It is not uncommon to see a new user disagree profusely with the idea that their question may be a duplicate. And way more often than not it turns out to be due to the lack of understanding of their side.
This new wording both encourages the misguided denial on the side of the inexperienced user and puts words in the mouth of the closevoters that they did not necessarily mean to say. Neither of the two is helpful.
It is pointless too, if you remember that three close votes will close the question no matter what (correctly reinforcing the "I'm telling you" pattern), and those can come up rather quickly.
The OP would expect from such extended address that they would now have some time to respond or indeed edit the question, only to find that it was actually closed before they refreshed the page.
(You would be correct in pointing out that the previous "Does this answer your question?" was not exactly "I'm telling you it's a duplicate" either. I wasn't particularly fond of that one either when it replaced the proper "possible duplicate of" a long time ago, for very similar reasons, but this ship has sailed, and this new wording takes it way too far in the same direction.)