If you're referring to this question of yours that was recently put on hold:
there's already a text box below your question that says exactly why it was put on hold:
This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:
"Questions asking us to recommend or find a tool, library or favorite off-site resource are off-topic for Stack Overflow as they tend to attract opinionated answers and spam. Instead, describe the problem and what has been done so far to solve it." – John Conde, BigDave, KatieK
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question or leave a comment.
These users are not moderators, they're normal users. The only 'moderators' you see on the site are people with diamonds next to their name, like me.
To answer the question you ask -- there is nowhere on the Stack Exchange network that is a good place to answer your question.
We're not a substitute for sites that give recommendations. Opinions are like... armpits -- everyone has them, and they stink. That's why we don't specialize in opinions (recommendations) we specialize in answers to specific questions.
I recommend Slashdot, Hacker News, or Reddit for your question. Maybe twitter? There's a newfangled comparison site out there called Slant.co, this may even be on topic there (I don't really know, but it seems like it could be, if asked correctly).
To address the question you just edited in about "why the downvotes":
People voted you down for a few reasons
- They disagree with your position (that users should have to write custom comments)
- they likely disagree with the tone in which you expressed that opinion and
- You received quite a few downvotes before editing an example into your question -- people downvote when arguments are not cogent or complete.