I've been participating in the engineering private beta this week and filled in the form in the sidebar to invite a friend.

I was very surprised to find out that my real name was sent to that person as the inviter instead of my display name. Is this on purpose and can it please be changed to display name only? I was under the impression that my real name would not be made available to the public. It was shared with SE under this assumption.

Please could you fully disclose under what circumstances is my real name shared and with whom?

I did it again with a dummy real name and it came up, so this is definitely where the name was taken from:

My real name in email screenshot

I believe this is against the Stack Exchange Privacy Policy.

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    Are you 100% certain your real name is not listed in your friend's address book? Apple Mail for example will display the address book name if a from email address matches. Did your real name appear in the body of the email, for example? Commented Jan 25, 2015 at 21:48
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    @MartijnPieters I tried it and it actually puts the real name into the mail body Commented Jan 25, 2015 at 21:53
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    Well, they assume whoever you invite is a friend of yours hence already knows your real name. So, don't think it's a big issue. Still +1 since this better get official stamp and be documented somewhere. :) Commented Jan 25, 2015 at 21:56
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    It was a person I was friends with online, I wanted control over when I tell them my name. It's not a huge deal but very concerning nonetheless.
    – stanri
    Commented Jan 25, 2015 at 22:15
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    @Mad thanks for verifying. That does sound rather unexpected. Commented Jan 25, 2015 at 22:24
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    @bluet actually I didn't put in my full name when I comitted. It populated my full name and I took out my surname.
    – stanri
    Commented Jan 26, 2015 at 3:34
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    This is not good. It's most likely an oversight. We're looking into it ASAP.
    – hairboat
    Commented Jan 26, 2015 at 14:33

2 Answers 2


We agree this isn't ideal. You should now get (if logged in, and you have a real name specified that is not the same as your display name) a choice of which name to use for the invite. Additionally, it now defaults to the display name.

Sorry about that.


This will be fixed real soon -- like today. We'll now allow you to choose which name to include in the invitation email. You'll hear from a developer here when the fix is going live.

update: it's aliiiive!

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    For me at least, there is now a radio button in the sidebar that lets you pick to use your screen name or your full name for inviting people.
    – Ethan48
    Commented Jan 26, 2015 at 16:45

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