As far as I know, every site still has a Comment Flag for "It's unfriendly or unkind".
Under the previous Code of Conduct, "unfriendly or unkind" was defined, and the bar was pretty low:
No subtle put-downs or unfriendly language.
Even if you don’t intend it, this can have a negative impact on others.
Unfriendly Friendly ❌ “You could Google this in 5 seconds.” ✔️ “This is called Invariance and Covariance. If you Google it, you’ll find tutorials that can explain it much better than we can in an answer here.” ❌ “If you bothered to read my question, you’d know it’s not a duplicate.” ✔️ “I don’t think this is a duplicate. My question is about cement board, while the question you linked is about drywall.” ❌ “Are you speaking English? If so, I can’t tell.” ✔️ “I’m having trouble understanding your question. I think you’re asking how to add a swap after system installation. Is that correct?” ❌ “I came to get help, not to get my question edited.” ✔️ “Thanks for trying to help, but your edit isn’t what I meant. I’ve removed your edit, and have updated my question so it’s clearer.”
No name-calling or personal attacks.
And the last two, "No bigotry/harassment" are the only ones covered in the new policy.
The rest of it is completely missing from the new CoC. I recall users mentioning this when commenting on the initial draft of the new CoC, but apparently it still got left out for some reason. It doesn't seem to be intentional; if it was, I would think the Comment Flag option would have been removed as well.
The new CoC seems to swing to the other extreme, and set a very high bar. The closest match I can find for the old "Unfriendly or Unkind" is the new Abusive Behavior, with examples being Bullying and Harassment, Hostile comments, Dangerous speech, Bigotry & Discrimination, Dehumanization, and Extremism.
That's all well and good, but what is the policy on "subtle put-downs or unfriendly language" and other "Unfriendly or Unkind" language under the new CoC?
I've had a few comment flags declined recently that, to me, would appear unfriendly or unkind under the old CoC:
In response to an off-topic question:
Why did you not stop and check what type of questions are allowed here before asking? Thats really rude.
[question OP] It's not [programming related] I know, but on reddit noone's answering my question
What's happening on other sites is irrelevant. Your question is not programming related, so it is off-topic for this site. Just because you don't find help somewhere else does not make it OK to post noise here.
IMHO, calling a user "rude", or their post "noise" seem to be perfect examples of the old CoC's "subtle put-downs or unfriendly language."
But under the new policy, I'm not sure. What is acceptable? What is not?