How about we allow people with reputation >= 5000 to see deleted questions & answers?
I noticed your post is circa 2010; in 2018, you can see your own deleted posts, though it's difficult and not very centralized as it's on a per-site basis, and perhaps each site has different user IDs.
See your profile under the tabs for questions and answers and there are links to the deleted Q&As. The links follow this format: https://$CHANGEMETASITE/users/recently-deleted-questions/$YOURUSERNUMBER
I tried to post about it here in a related feature request:
Ironically, this question will probably be deleted too.