I've been asking questions here for 3-4 months and every time I try to ask a question it either gets downvoted or closed within 10 minutes, and people say that "you're just looking to gain reputation" and "come back with a proper question". But I've been trying for the last 2 months to try and ask good, worthwhile questions, but I can't do that.  Can anyone help me with this? 

I've looked at the help center and read it thoroughly multiple times, and searched up anything with "how to ask good questions" or "how to participate in meta and not die trying". I've tried to do that, but no matter what I'm always struck by downvotes, for I don't even know what reason. I'm just looking for a way to thrive and contribute to this community, and nobody's letting me do that.


https://meta.stackexchange.com/questions/375424/why-is-wikipedia-asking-for-donations

https://meta.stackexchange.com/questions/375417/proposed-platinum-badges