No, this is not appropriate. See Definitive rules on chat rooms with non-technical discussionDefinitive rules on chat rooms with non-technical discussion (The policy is for chat.SO, but it extends to chat.SE as well)
Under "Signs of inappropriate rooms", here are the points such a chat room violates
- The room's given topic (and thus its definition) already hints at the fact that people explicitly not want to talk about stuff that would be considered [site]-related.
Nope. Dating/attracting girls has nothing to do with any chat parent site.
- The room generates conversation in a tone that cannot by any stretch of imagination be considered "professional". This may e.g. be A/S/L types of conversation, bullying, back-and-forth accusations, etc.
This seems to be exactly an A/S/L room.
- The real-world equivalent of the room would be people waiting at a bus stop
Sounds about right.
Please let us know which room it is so that it can be dealt with (flag it or link to it in your post).