I also use my real name on this site. If what happened to Monica happened to me, I would be just as appalled and frustrated.
SE has to address this rather than simply ignore it.
I also throw my wholehearted support behind Monica in her effort to get as much of this situation repaired as possible.
A few practical suggestions:
If a GoFundMe page is set up to help deal with the personal expenses that have been and will be faced, I will happily contribute to that.
If there is a petition created in her support, I will happily sign that.
If there is some other forum where I can express my public support, I will participate there too.