Search is broken.
Well ok: It's frustrating.
I see other people doing it and think "jeez, that's lazy" then after trying a bunch of search terms without much joy, figure, well the quickest way is just to ask. So what if you get abused (not that I actually do this) because, hey, you still get pointed to your answer within a very short period of time.
So is that a bad thing? I mean if someone else is looking for a distraction and can find the answer quicker than you can, what's the damage? A bit more noise in the SO database? What do I care?
Sure you want specifics, not rants:
Default results order is "relevance"? They're not relevant, they're often just the most recent. Apparently low voted recent questions are more relevant than long-standing, well-endowed, super-concrete answers from years back?
Fine, no joy. Let's hit "votes" tab, and see if I can find this undoubtedly common question there. Nope. That just throws up the same old highly voted, super generic, "what are the best tips" kind of crap I've seen a million times and is not remotely relevant. Sift down a few pages in hope, and I'm: Nowhere.
Fine. I hit the link and read through the 'advanced search options' occasionally and even possibly, perhaps, remember one, like "title:...". Sheez if it mentions it in the title then surely it's more relevant. So type it in again with "title:blah"... etc. etc.
By this time I've executed a bunch of search terms, a bunch of different tabs, a bunch of pages. I know this thing I'm looking for will be in here, but where?! So often it's really really hard to come up with those unique words that nail the question. Sure as hell the poster-child question/answer didn't use them.
Fine. Can't beat 'em? Join 'em. I'll just ask a new question. It's easier to have some other bored mug to find it for me. He'll get to feel superior, and I'll be out of my misery. Now because the tags are entered after the question even the suggested existing questions are way off base until after you've typed in the body of the question! I've only recently worked out that's why the suggested answers are so far off base. Please do something simple and ask for tags before the question.
Welcome to Gen Z. Why work it out myself when there's plenty of mugs who'll do it for me?
Isn't this "question" a fine example? I've had my rant, and I'm sure someone is going to show me the duplicate. But hey! I got it off my chest, and you pointed me to someone else's. I vote 'close - not a real question'. YMMV.