We were having a titillating discussion in the Teacher's Lounge about toxic comments when it came up that "imperatives" could indicate rude comments. I won't defend this, but I'll explain the background...
Take this made-up comment:
Edit your post so it has sources.
That's "imperative", instructing someone what to do. To new users, that may seem bossy. We mods on BH.SE use comments that sound more like suggestions. Albeit, different sites have different cultures... tl;dr
Then, we discuss more...
Adding "please" doesn't make it less bossy, but seems more friendly. Is it?
Please edit your post so it has sources.
Then, we discuss more...
Adding conditionals appeals to logic and feels less bossy. Consider what I've seen others post, and myself:
Please edit your post to include sources so that others don't vote to delete it.
...The imperative alone (first example) may be perceived differently than the imperative with the conditional (third example)...
Maybe you don't agree. Great! Maybe you do agree, but before we get married...
tl;dr
Using pure grammar in our considerations, alongside other considerations, could be very helpful. We could look at meaning, buzz words, et cetera. But, also step back and take a look at the pure grammar itself.
That could be useful because:
- Grammar is objective and thus is a better reason for flagging, voting, deleting, taking action, et cetera.
- Grammar could work with AI to more easily auto-flag possible abusive comments.
I don't want to argue whether asking a user to edit a comment is abusive. I want input on using pure grammar itself as a possible way be more objective, both for community human decisions and for AI helping out with the grunt work.
We are discussing this because we want to be more welcoming to new users, in the minds of high-reps on more than one site, as the network can be perceived as toxic. Perhaps running grammar through AI algorithms might help identify trends from comments in the past that were deemed abusive. This presumes that we are looking for ways to be more welcoming.
Albeit, comments would be easier to implement, but once refined it could prove useful for flagging posts and beyond.