Let's say there's a site that I'd like to see graduate into a full SE site (I'm not going to mention Code Golf here). Now, I'm aware that the answer to "when will we graduate" is "when you're ready."
However, what if I have the question "what do we need to do to graduate?" What if I think we're ready to graduate, and I want to know why we're not? What is the process for asking that?
Do I ask on its per-site meta? If I do this, I'm not sure it will get the attention by the Official SE Graduation Committee of Officialness™.
Ask on meta.SO (meta.SE soon)? This doesn't seem right either though, since it's site-specific.