I keep seeing this more and more (and on sites other than SO):
A question is asked about a practical problem
People post comments (at best) or even answers (even worse) that are eloquent, highly voted, and totally offtopic/irrelevant, amounting to things like "You shouldn't be asking this question", "You are asking the wrong question", "Why do you even want to know", "Your shouldn't be solving this problem but another problem" (the latter is known on StackOverflow as X-Y problem).
I'm especially concerned with the first two comments.
There are tons of examples; the last one I saw today was on Workplace. The question " How can a workplace rally after everyone's salary got leaked? " generated the following comments, all upvoted:
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Why are you asking this question on behalf of your friend - is your friend responsible for the salary distribution? Is your friend part of management? If not, it's none of your friends' business how the management copes with it. The management sets and implements policy, they get to deal with the consequences of their decisions
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sorry, but your friend is unethical. He fired someone for sharing salary info? At the same time he was screwing over his employees salary wise, including with gender-discrimination? And now he wants to "fix" the issue? If your friend is the manager/CEO, the fix is he resigns and leaves. He has no place in the modern workplace.
{{ my note: this isn't simply offtopic, but also incorrect. Most companies have explicit policy against making compensation public and releasing even your own salary is a fireable offense and is ALWAYS explicitly stated so in most compensation discussions, at least where I worked }}
Just to be clear, I'm NOT complaining about the users' behavior as far as posting this - as a matter of fact the person who posted the second comment publicly apologized for making incorrect assumptions.
However, I'd like to see if we have a policy against posts in this spirit ("Your question is wrong") and as such, be able to flag such comments - which frequently are popular and upvoted - for deletion.
Please note that this doesn't seem explicitly covered by "Code of Conduct" and "Be nice" - the comments are frequently generally polite-ish and not personal, objecting to the question's content and not the person.
The problem with such comments is that frequently, the OP already knows about the alternate avenues, the reasons why common solution to their situation differ from what their question discusses, etc...; and usually OP has valid reasons for asking the exact practical question they are asking.